rediscover yourself

are you feeling lost?
has life become a monotonous routine?

have you looked in the mirror and wondered
“where did the ‘real’ me go?”

go on a quest to rediscover your true self
and live a more fulfilling life

explore the path to self-discovery
and your deepest dreams and desires

embrace self-reflection

the journey to self-discovery starts with self-reflection
take a moment to pause
disconnect from the noise of daily life
and look within
ponder the following questions:

  • what are your passions and interests?
  • what makes you feel alive and inspired?
  • what are your long-forgotten dreams and aspirations?

reconnect with your passions

rediscovering yourself
often means reigniting your passions
remember the hobbies, interests, and activities that bring you joy
rekindling your passions can be a
powerful way to rediscover your authentic self

challenge your comfort zone

growth happens outside of your comfort zone
to rediscover yourself and live a more fulfilling life
you’ll need to embrace new experiences and challenges
stepping out of your comfort zone can open up
new perspectives and possibilities you never knew existed

create mindfulness

mindfulness is the practice of being
fully present in the moment
allowing you to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment
gain a deeper understanding of your inner self
mindfulness can connect with your true self, bringing clarity and inner peace

practice self-care

self-care is not selfish
it’s necessary for self-discovery and personal growth
prioritize your physical and mental well-being
taking time to relax and recharge
explore your true self and create a fulfilling life

a journey to a fulfilling life

the journey to rediscovering yourself
and living a fulfilling life is a deeply personal one
requiring self-reflection, courage, and a commitment to personal growth
embrace your passions and challenge your comfort zone
embark on a transformative journey that leads to a life aligned with your true self

create your life!
live your truth!

feeling anxious to start putting yourself first?

do you feel like you are constantly pleasing everyone around you? you’ve been wanting to make a shift because you have been feeling empty and lost but you have no idea how to start pouring back into yourself

i see many midlife women who have been living for everyone else almost their whole life and think if they decide to start walking, reading, or doing a hobby they love so they can have 10 minutes of their own time they are being selfish

the truth is these women are actually being selfish by not showing others she is worthy of her own time

don’t make assumptions people will feel a certain way, when you express what you really want, communicate clearly, and take even the smallest action for yourself you are stepping into your power and taking the first step of putting yoruself first

helping women reclaim their personal power is the root of what i do for my clients and why i created the wild woman way framework

if you want to make a change, click here to download your 15 minute guide to stepping into your personal power

live your truth!

balance isn’t really a thing

do you want balance?
most likely you answered, yes!

balance is something we experience
for a moment or two

then life happens
we are back out of balance

balance in life isn’t having daily balance
balance in life is having balance in your life journey

what do you want in life now?

what do you want in life next week?
what do you want in life next month?
what do you want in life next year?

is what you want now, next week, next month, next year
all the same?

if yes

what is the result of what you want?
that is your balance in life, not balance
that want, that feeling

if no

that’s the balance of your life journey
growing and experiencing in different life areas
priorities change as we experience life

what do you want in life now?
how does that create balance in your life?

create your life!
live your truth!

balance

in all life areas
separately and
in the whole of life

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values
goals
vision

prioritizing
what’s most important

allowing
letting go

boundaries
expectations

guiding
empowering

balance in life is a lot
present moment awareness with

values
goals
vision

in mind allow choices for

balance
growth

happiness
fulfillment

love
abundance

live your truth!

easy and simple

life can be easy and simple
but there are so many gray areas

contradicting wants
do i know what i really want?
what’s most important if they are contradicting?

maybe some of it’s old beliefs
still overpowering new beliefs

old habits
still overpowering new habits

for who i want to be
what i want to do

to be
be!

it seems so easy
in my mind it’s easy

maybe it’s not supposed to be easy
so we experience life
challenge is growth

still
i look forward to simply being!

living in the moment
present
connected
love
truth
gratitude
joy
serenity

live your truth!

balancing change

change happens in all areas of life
when there is a change your focus is zeroed in

zeroed in on what you need it to be
what is the change happening now?

when you are zeroed in
you lose some priorities that you had
you feel out of balance

you don’t spend as much time
creating
reading
exercising
socializing
being outside
sleeping
meditating

you don’t do what you want for
eating healthy
working your business
being present to those you love
taking care of your family
taking care of yourself

change happens
how aware are you to how each change effects you?

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what do you want to do with change?
accept it
know that you will be off balance for a bit
grow with it
be aware

with awareness
you will be able to prioritize differently
and keep what’s most important now

with awareness
you will be able to shift
to what’s most important
and keep balance in your life

balance in life is everchanging with change
balance is being present
balance is being aware
balance is choosing what’s most important to you

balance in life is to be looked at more broadly
not focused on a short time period
balance is part of growth
spiraling upward growth
balance changes with growth

balance is more like a teeter totter of life
you have your ups and downs
and as you go through the ups and downs and changes
you will be in the center between the ups and downs
you will be in the center between the changes and growth

when you are feeling out of balance
breathe
become aware of what’s changing
what’s most important to you?
what needs to shift with the change?
what will you shift again when the change is embodied?

change
grow

live your truth!

re-balance

life is constant re-balancing
what, or where, do you feel that life isn’t how you want it to be?

do you feel that you are off balance, or out of control?
should you have control?
what’s needed is to let go and allow

what should you allow?
what do you want?
what’s most important to you?

what’s important in this moment?
will a certain outcome for this moment, this challenge
this time in your life, have as big of an effect that you are feeling now?

can you let go the overwhelm, control, stress, anxiety and allow life to flow?
let life flow to a new balance

live your truth!

balance, no balance, re-balance

life is constant re-balancing
what, or where, do you feel that life isn’t quite working how you want it to?
do you feel that you are off balance, or out of control?
should you even have control?
maybe, what’s needed is to let go and allow

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allow what?
what do you want?
what’s most important to you?
what’s important in this moment?
will a certain outcome for this moment, this challenge, this time in your life, have as big of an effect that you are feeling now?
can you let go the overwhelm, control, stress, anxiety and allow life to flow?
let life flow to a new balance

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what is balance?
is there ever really balance?
i don’t think there is
we change, we grow, we face new challenges
we always want balance, but with change and growth, we are always re-balancing, there is no – balance
let go what you need to let go, and allow the ebb and flow of life to be your balance

live your truth!

what’s your journey?

taking action to achieve my goals has been a lot like taking a canoe journey. when paddling a canoe, to move forward you paddle on both sides of the canoe. in life, to achieve your vision, you take action on goals in all areas of your life.

every journey and goal is different; you never know what your challenges will be, or when you will be challenged during your journey. the effort required to paddle, to take action towards your vision and goals can and will change.

our goals are like the ripples in the water from paddling the canoe, one expanding into another, effecting and joining one another.

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on my various canoe journeys i’ve had many different experiences. i’ve been able to paddle leisurely. i’ve been faced with a challenge; a light wind, a strong wind, rain, or a change in direction.

in life there are times when your priority and focus will be on one area of your life and you will spend more time on the goals related to that area of your life to grow and achieve your vision. in these moments paddling, or taking actions for your goals, will be slow and steady to keep you moving forward.

on my canoe adventures i have had to change directions to make it to my destination. changing directions in a canoe requires you paddle more on one side of the canoe than the other. i have changed directions and was going into the wind so i needed to use more focused effort and energy. i have moved into a new direction and the wind was less and the paddling was easier because i wasn’t fighting against the wind.

there are times in life that you need to change directions, the goals you have may no longer be leading you to the vision that you have for yourself. in life changing your goals to achieve your vision may require more discipline and focus, or the goal may be easier because you are not fighting against the challenges that you faced going in the wrong direction.

there are times when i’ve been paddling in the right direction but a strong wind challenged me and i put forth a lot of energy and effort. paddling through challenges requires more determination and focus on your final destination in order to arrive to it. i didn’t let the wind stop me from reaching my destination; i’ve had to paddle with stronger and quicker strokes, i’ve had to move closer to shore stop and let the wind calm or the rain pass. i’ve gone with the flow letting the current carry me to rest, refresh and rejuvenate before continuing on my journey. i’ve had to ask for help in paddling, both to stop paddling and to begin paddling.

there are times when taking action on your goals you will have challenges; negative feelings of overwhelm doubt or worry, negative opinions from others, or a change in another area of your life. it is important to keep taking action towards your goals and move through and grow through the challenges you will face.

i have felt overwhelm when trying to achieve my goals. and the overwhelming feeling is accompanied with thoughts of doubt and worry, and questions of “how?” and “am i going to make it through?” at these times i take time to become aware of where i am, where i’ve been focusing my energies and actions. have i been taking action on one area of my life and neglecting another that i am out of balance and need to realign? do i need to let go and go with the flow?

most often when overwhelm tries to get to me it is because i’m not prioritizing my life and i haven’t had balance for too long. not too long ago i was feeling overwhelm and i became aware that it was because i wasn’t putting my health – specifically my physical activity as a priority. i was neglecting my morning exercise; running, yoga strength and stretching. and i know that when i’m not physically active, i’m affected in all areas of my life. it’s like ripples in the water disturbing and merging with the others. i’m not able to do my best, because i’m not physically my best.

it is important while on your journey, taking action to reach your goal, that you enjoy the journey! happiness comes from the experiences on your journey, not from reaching the final destination. reaching your final destination, achieving your goals is a time for celebration. during your journey and at the end of your journey practice being in present moment awareness. and as one journey ends, be ready for a new journey to begin.

enjoy the challenges of your journey!

live your truth!

balance

what is balance?

when do you feel balanced?

when do you feel out of balance?

balance is something we experience for a moment or two, and life happens, we’re back out of balance.

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why do we always try to attain a balance that is unattainable?

i’m not sure. but i know that i do like to feel balance in my life.

with the different moments in my life, with the many different experiences that i live my life needs different things to create a feeling of balance.

keeping balance in my life means that i am prioritizing what’s most important in my life. one of the most important for me is being sure i prioritize myself and take me time for my body, mind and spirit.

what makes you feel balanced?

what’s most important to you?

live your truth!