in my coaching class i answered questions as if i was beginning coaching with a coach. it was good to reflect and to connect to my dreams and desires. it was good to prepare as if i was going to coaching.
preparing like i was actually going to be coaching will help me to move forward and give me accountability to myself.
i have questions on my mind for discovery of what i want and what i can do to move forward in certain areas of my life. i have actions that i want to take. i am aware of what’s most import to me and what my challenges to focus on right now are.
i have a clearer thought and image of what i want and what i will do in the next 6 months and the next 30 days. i know where to direct my energy.
who do you want to be?
what do you want to do?
what do you want to experience?
what goals, dreams and desires do you want to accomplish in the next 6 months?
what do you want to accomplish, change or create in the next 30 days?
How many times have you asked a question, and you didn’t get the answer you were really wanting? Did you ask the right question?
How many times have you been asked a question, and you knew that the questioner was really wanting different information than what was being asked. How did you feel being asked a question that wasn’t the ‘real’ question being asked?
Questions should be straight forward and to the point. If you ask a question that is ‘fuzzy’, you will get a fuzzy answer. If you ask a question that is confusing, you will get a confused answer. If you ask a question that is ‘hinting’, you will get a hint for an answer. If you ask a specific question, you will get a specific answer, most of the time.
To get the answer you want, you need to ask the question that will get that answer. Be straight forward and to the point. You may have to be more candid, more vulnerable, and step out of your comfort zone.
If you want something, ask for it! Be open and specific. Asking the questions you really want will open new experiences and opportunities.
If you don’t ask the right questions – you’re not going to get the answers you want.
Are you asking yourself questions to get the answer that you want? Answers to empower your growth, expansion and awareness? What are you doing today to live your truth?