what does living your life successfully mean to you? how do you feel, or how would you feel, when you are living your life fully? are you experiencing your life to the fullest?
life dreams and desires, life goals, are for creating and balancing your life so that you feel you are living a fulfilled life
life dreams and desires are in all areas of your life:
fun and recreation
finances and money
family and friends
health and wellbeing
romance and love
when you know what your life dreams and desires are your dreams and desires are in alignment with your values and purpose and you are taking action to achieve your dreams and desires – your life is lived with happiness and growth, a feeling of fulfillment
a life dream or desire is a goal that if you accomplished or experienced, you would feel your life was a success, as you define your success
what does happiness meant to you? what does success mean to you? what does fulfillment mean to you?
who do you want to be? what do you want to do? what do you want to experience? how do you want to live?
what do you want? are you connected to your dreams and desires? are you connected to your inner dreams and desires? when you are connected, you are aware aware of what you want aware of what’s most important to you aware of your dreams and desires
when you are aware, you are able to create create what you want create what’s most important to you create your dreams and desires creating your dreams and desires is living your truth living your truth is being who you want to be doing what you want to do experiencing what you want to experience what are your inner dreams and desires? what do you want? what is most important to you? connect to your dreams and desires create your dreams and desires celebrate your dreams and desires
the middle currents are faster and free flowing. the currents are the goals and desires that are grounded and centered in your core being.
the currents along the edges are slower having to feel the way and learn while moving along the river. the currents are dreams and desires for experiencing life fully and fulfilling your being.
sometimes there are obstacles, rocks and logs that block the flow of the currents. the obstacles slow the current down and need to be removed or navigated around for the current to continue it’s journey down the river.
what obstacles are in your river? what are you doing to remove them and get around the obstacle?
what does your river look like right now? rivers are constantly moving and changing. the currents are constantly moving and changing.
what are the dreams and desires in the currents of your river? what is the life journey all of your currents are creating in your river of life?
there are many wants i have. many dreams and desires. i have many desires achieved now that i am living and experiencing. i have desires that are growing and expanding. i have dreams and desires that are experienced in little ways, and wanted in big ways. i have dreams and desires creating the vision of the life that i want to live.
in all these wants of mine, the biggest desire now is to be present. be present for myself, be present for those i am sharing the moment with.
i want to be aware of the experience, enjoying the experience. i want to be connected to my inner being and connected to who i may be with. i want to be me, free of masks. i want to enjoy others for their being, no expectations and no judging, connecting to their being.
present. being. connected. life. love.
where am i? present!
where am i going? being present in the next moment!
thinking about love and what i want. thinking about what i’ve learned about love is giving and not worrying about getting. love is about the act of loving without expecting anything in return.
what does that look like?
how does that fit in with all that i want to experience and share in relationships?
a desire for a relationship, a choice to be in a relationship, then loving…
is that all there is to love?
is there expectation in choice? or you love yourself first, which would be in the choices you make. positive choices, choices for what you desire and what’s most important to you. the choice, it is two in one to love without expectation. choose to love without expectation. and choose to be in a relationship. and keep choosing, keep choosing to love without expectation and keeping choosing the relationships you want.
then sharing and experiencing love in a relationship. and this part is the act of love without expectation. sharing and experiencing life together in a relationship that you want. don’t expect life and love to come from the relationship, share and experience life and love in the relationship.
if you love yourself first in choosing what you desire and what’s most important to you, then when loving another you will be getting what you want. in the ups and downs and ebbs and flows of life and experiences, you will be sharing and experiencing in relationship. loving yourself is giving to yourself, loving yourself is giving to relationship and loving the other, giving to relationship and loving the other is loving yourself.
i choose my relationships. i give to my relationships and love the other. i am happy and grateful for my relationships! now… now, i am going to practice loving without expectation.